I don’t normally post pics of pro porn actors (not knowingly, anyway) but this shot has everything I love: Men, mutual masturbation, boners, smiles and unabashed pleasure. Just imagine this is you and a good friend relaxing together naked, sharing penis pleasure and feeling unconditionally good, unwaveringly shameless.
“Let’s take a Selfie Selfie Sex @Menatplaycom @FlexXtremmo http://t.co/w6gkCM6zls”
Of course you like to masturbate ! Who doesn’t, really ? But have you ever deliberately acknowledged the fact ? Isn’t it time you made it known to you that you like to masturbate ?
I hear you : you wonder why you should spill the beans. Simple : by bringing this fact in the open, by confessing…
Examining the Pull of Group Masturbation Parties | VICE United States
A very good article on the phenomenon of JO clubs, with some nice perspective from an enthusiast in Australia. Unfortunately, this article does propagate the myth that HIV was responsible for JO clubs:
“… Group masturbation clubs emerged in the 1980s, when public fear of AIDS was in overdrive. They were conceived as environments where men could meet up to manually gratify one another without running the risks associated with penetrative sex…”
NY Jacks and the LA Handjob Fraternity both arose in 1980 prior to the appearance of HIV. The JO club has its roots in desire, not fear. I think it’s an important distinction but other than that, this is an excellent article.
Interesting article. I like it when the standard narrative is blown apart in favor of quantifiable facts… I would note that although it was a pretty good-sized sample, the face-to-face interview methodology may have had more impact on results than they estimated…
And I like this morsel:
“… In both genders, a sexless relationship suppressed masturbation. Respondents who masturbated the most were usually involved in a sexual relationship. Having partner sex, it appears, piques interest in solo sex…”
I like this piece at salon.com about fantasy. I didn’t say I agree with all of it, but it’s a great piece to start a conversation about what our brains do with sex…
And I especially disagree that National Masturbation Month is passé. I think the writer must live on one of those splendid islands of the Urban Archipelago. Here in the more “over it” parts of the country, we like to think that everyone else in the USA thinks like we do.
Uh… no. We still need to keep pushing forward the understanding that sex is fundamentally good and not the most shameful part of the fundamentally evil state of a fundamentally sinful humanity.