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While I have been cured of prostate cancer, the surgery left me unable to ejaculate sperm. I am able to have an intense orgasm and have strong erections and passion, but there is no reward for a partner at the end… I am embarrassed by this and don’t know how to best handle opportunities such as I would have at RCJ as I did regularly a few rears ago. It is a great place for men! There should be a place when guys with my issue could get together without the guilt. What do you think?
This is just my opinion, but I don’t think there is any need for men with atypical orgasms to be segregated. I think that the people you should be playing with are the people you are attracted to, the people who make you breath heavy, that make your cock get hard, that make you want…
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Not really a question, but I just want to say I stumbled across your tumblr and just read pages and pages of it. I fucking love it. I love how sex positive and enthusiastic you are about penis and how you aren’t shy to call people out on holding onto their shame. If every guy in the world had your attitude, there would be so much positive, electric sexual energy flowing through men. It would just feed on itself and we’d be living in a sexual nirvana. Keep up the great work, buddy!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I am grateful and happy to share my perspective with anyone who gets something out of it… I will only add that my focus may be on men, because that is the sexual arena in which I play, but I want all people to live free from…
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Thirty Days
Today is Day 21. I want to give you a heads-up about something I’m doing right now. I tweeted about it a week ago and I am hungry to write about it, but I need to finish what I’ve started first… because I’m in the middle of it. Actually, I’m literally two-thirds of the way…
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healthyfriction: Cum be a Wanker and Jack-Off at one of Healthy Friction’s Masturbation Events! The Next Two Healthy Friction Masturbation Events. 5th Annual Healthy Friction Burning Man Circle Jerk.WED 27 AUG 2014, at the Comfort & Joy: Noon-2:30PM Healthy Friction Fall Palm Springs Fly-In Weekend of Masturbation.09-12 OCT 2014. For more info: blog: http://healthyfriction.blogspot.com/ twitter:…
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You can’t hide and have pride.
Just a brief thought on Pride 2014… I deal with guys who “value discretion” all the time. I understand. Guys who have sex with guys don’t often feel perfectly okay with their boss (or their boyfriend, wife, kids, mom) finding out. I get it. But here’s the thing about hiding the important stuff about ourselves…
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Hi Paul . Would you know of any JO clubs in the Baltimore Md area ? Thanks
The closest club to you is about 90 miles away in Philadelphia, at least according to my best information. Philadelphia Jacks meets about four times a month and has been in operation for many years. I heartily recommend them. But I see no clubs meeting regularly in the Baltimore area. My suggestion is to use…
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Yes, the Tumblr app works great on an iPad…
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Obsessive, not Compulsive
My husband and I have several differences. One is libido and along with that, frequency of masturbation. He has to remember to masturbate. I have to regulate it to keep from overdoing it. It started when a friend shared an article with me with recent data on frequency of masturbation. For my age group, (men…
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Thanks for the follow! Big respect to you and your club. Wish we had one still in Chicago!!
I wish you had one too. Somebody in Chicago needs to make it happen. If one of you guys in Chicago wants help starting a jack-off club, send me a private message and I’ll help.
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Is there a place in any JO club for guys who love caress and be caressed even though they themselves have erectile dysfunction? I’m 61, 207 lbs, diabetic, and for the past two years have found it increasing difficult to get hard. I’m on alpha and beta blockers. I can still blow a load but instead of it happening repeatedly on a daily basis it’s now maybe once a week with a soft cock. The idea of being among healthy horny hard cocks when mine is flaccid seems appallingly stupid.
The answer is yes. There is a place in most JO clubs (including mine) for guys with ED. When we say we do not discriminate, we mean it. The only thing that is unwelcome is bad behavior, which means breaking the rules or treating other members disrespectfully. If physical contact with other men is important…