That’s a really good idea, and I’ve been writing it for a while. It’s part of my book on the history and culture of jack-off clubs. The question for me is, do I want to give that advice now or wait to publish it in print?
Let me think about it.
(I assume the question is in response to this post.)
Thank you! I deliberately keep my blog focused on the written word rather than images, but I will certainly be posting more clips in the future.
The Number One Question I receive by far is this: “Is there a JO club near me?”
There are three responses I almost always give:
- I don’t know.
- Check the NY Jacks Web site’s Links page.
- Join and search Bateworld for your city’s name or the name of a larger nearby town.
There are men all over the country who are actively looking for bate buddies. There are not a lot of JO clubs, but you can probably find somebody if you keep looking. Just be as safe as you can be.
A lot of people have asked this question since Dan popularized the phrase. Even though he has walked it back and now reminds everyone to not call it that, he still gives the same advice and I agree: You have to deny your dick the familiar stimulus until your brain forges new neural pathways.
That means you may have to go without orgasms for a while, but stick with it. Do anything but what you’re addicted to and your need to cum will eventually find a way. It is very, very hard to break some habits. Just keep trying until you make it.
Here are some relevant resources for you. Both should be helpful: