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I’m not too tumblr savvy, other than scrolling through the endless pics… But I wanted to say some things. I’m 30 and have never had sex. I’m gay. I was raised in a very conservative Christian family, I went to a Christian college and even went to seminary for a gotten over just about every intellectual and spiritual hurdle to being gay, except for that very big one…actually having sex with another man. I love masturbating and lately have been clued in to some of the finer points of edging and “gooning.” One afternoon a couple months ago I masturbated for three hours–the longest I’ve ever done–and I experienced some wonderful things physically and emotionally. I’ve been reading your blog and I’ve looked over the Rain City Jacks website. I am planning some time soon to come to an event. I am very nervous about the idea but very excited. I hope to learn something about myself and other men, and of course to have a good time and get off. Just wanted to share. Thanks.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience here. I apologize if this is about a hundred times more response than you wanted… but here goes! I live in an unusually progressive (read, “non-conservative”) city. Being gay here is about as close to a non-issue as anywhere I’ve ever lived, and I love it, but it’s…
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Update
This is not a lengthy post. Sorry, my faithful minions… I just want to mention that movement on my book seems to have kicked into gear. The right people are falling into place, the right circumstances are appearing at the right times… It’s starting to look like this thing is really happening, and lots of…
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Meanings
I see three specific meanings that we generally apply to the word, “masturbation.” One contextual, one an objective action, and one euphemism. And of course there are many more. This is, after all, the most common sex our species practices, so there are myriad applications and twists on the word, but I have a theory…
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Goon
Gooning is one of those things that many men don’t understand, and it is a very, very easy thing to make fun of. Gooning is, in fact, objectively ridiculous. It is also one of the things that holds a key to a freer expression of sexuality through mindful masturbation. It doesn’t really surprise me that…
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Center (part 1)
Wow, I’ve been remiss… A few days of lost blogging turns into weeks. So far, it hasn’t become a month off but I’m getting dangerously close. It’s a new year and I’m thinking this needs to be the year of The Project. I’ve been committing myself judiciously to a number of activities (not the least…