Month: August 2010

  • I have so few current photos of myself, I thought it was time to take and post one. This is me as of today.

  • Evil

    Saturday, August 28, 2010 I had an interesting day this fine, cool, late-August Saturday in Seattle. I got up at 6:30 to caffeinate, wash and shave in time to arrive at Seattle University by 9:00, fresh as a daisy and ready for my makeup call. The following three hours, I was the recipient of the…

  • Kink

    Friday, August 27, 2010 There used to be a cable access TV show on Seattle called Sex Life Live, hosted by Dane Ballard. It was actually a pretty cool, DIY production, pretty decent and watchable as public access goes (which is not saying a lot) and they had lots of the local kink community there…

  • Here’s a nice picture of some mutually masturbating men modeling RCJ t-shirts. Why? Because I really need to sleep. Now. I may write two entries tomorrow (as if) but today, sleep…

  • Event

    Wednesday, August 25, 2010 – RCJ Event #146 As I write this, I’m that odd guy on the bus, gazing at his iPhone with a Bluetooth keyboard in front of it, clacking away… Being able to carry a compact keyboard that works with my phone has been life-changing. I can now write virtually anywhere (I…

  • Hunger

    Tuesday, August 24, 2010 – The day before the Jacks event Tomorrow night is an event night. Somewhere between 40 and 80 men will gather expectantly at the playspace at 7:00, to strip down and masturbate together for three hours. For me, that means I just finished a couple of hours of updating the club…

  • Goodness

    Monday, August 23, 2010 in 1989, I took a weekend trip to Boulder Colorado from my then home, Aspen, to take Level One of Shambhala training. I had read Chogyam Trungpa’s book, Shambhala, The Way of The Warrior during the first year of recovery after 14 years of remarkably consistant drug use. It was part…

  • Four Jacks from 2009. I’m on the right with the black wrist band. I really need to do a lot more photo shoots of the club…

  • Nine

    Saturday, August 21, 2010 I started masturbating when I was nine years old. I also smoked my first marijuana when I was nine. It was something of a pivotal year for me… The Winter before my ninth birthday, when I was eight, Olympia Fields, Illinois shared the Great Chicago Blizzard of 1967. I think of…

  • Bators

    Friday, August 20, 2010 I want to talk about bators. “Bators” are the self-described, proud masturbators in a currently thriving area of the kinkiverse. They are men who seek other men to masturbate “with” (either physically or virtually). Some of them can be found at jack-off clubs but you will find a lot more online,…